Seven ways to add romance to your life
Hello loves!
Are you excited about it being February already? I can’t believe how quickly this winter is flying by and we are already in the month of love! Valentine’s day is quickly approaching and everywhere I look, luscious reds and vibrant pinks are catching my eye and bringing a much needed pop of color in dreary winter. Since it is the month of love and not just coupled up love, I thought it would be fun to figure out different ways to bring romance into my life and share it with y’all. As a single mama, this is so important to understand and do little things every day to put you in that vibe. Everyone needs more romance in their life and that includes romancing yourself!
Buy yourself the damn flowers. - If you are waiting on someone to read your mind and buy you flowers, chances are slim that it will actually happen. Instead, walk through the floral section of the grocery store. Before picking up a bouquet and hustling out quickly, stop and smell the roses. Totally cliche; but it always makes me happy just smelling flowers while I pick out some bouquets while humming to myself.
Wear something that makes you feel glamorous. - This might be a dress, a pair of heels or a faux fur jacket; but you want something that makes you feel like you are rocking it and something that makes people turn their heads to look at you. It’s a huge confidence booster and just adds a little something to your day.
If you are out at a restaurant or bar, get off your phone and strike up a conversation. - This obviously applies to pre-pandemic times when we were all able to get out and about and fingers crossed that it will get back that way soon. I’m known for always making small talk when I’m anywhere (must be the Southern coming out); but I’ve had some amazing experiences just from chatting to those around me. Also if you are looking for company, it shows you are approachable and you would be very surprised on the romance that heads your direction.
Find a place that plays live music, especially jazz or classical music. - If you are hanging out at home these days, there are a ton of jazz or classical music playlists that help set that mood even if you aren’t going out or having anyone over. Music does amazing things when it comes to setting a vibe or getting yourself in that mood.
Candlelight is always romantic and extremely flattering. - Just don’t accidentally catch your hair or outfit on fire. Candlelight puts out a soft glow that makes everything feel cozy and helps to also set that hygge vibe.
Make a fancy meal at home. - I’m not sure about anyone else; but I’ve definitely been cooking more at home during the pandemic versus going out to eat. Going out has definitely lost some of its luster; but there are some really nice meals that I like to have out that I can now make at home. Think of your favorite fancy dinner out and try it at home. For me, that’s champagne and lobster tails. I found out that making lobster tails at home was surprisingly easy and way way cheaper than ordering it out like under $15 for two. The biggest thing about what makes a meal fancy is the ambience of the restaurant. You want to plate the meal on your nice plate wear; not paper plates (I’ve totally done that) and drink out of nice water goblets or wine glasses. Also what takes it over the top is setting the table with cloth napkins. Y’all go to your nearest HomeGoods and they will hook you up with some basics.
Wear beautiful lingerie. - I’ve heard this time and time again and it’s true. Lingerie that makes you feel beautiful will add a little romance to your day. You don’t have to wear it for someone else (even though it’s very appreciated); but you can wear it for yourself to help you feel more confident and put together, not to mention sexy! I was always trying to figure out why French women always seemed to look glamorous and pulled together. The reasoning is to have your base put together and the rest flows naturally. If you are really wanting to amp up the feelings of romance in your life, do a boudoir photo shoot. You won’t be the same after and that’s a good thing. :)
What do you do to add romance to your life? Inquiring minds want to know. Comment below to share.
Until next time,
Megan
